Yesterday evening, the phone rang about 7:15 pm. I was still here, still working, pushing more paper. I picked up the phone, “Hello”?
“Is this Survival Acres?”.
“Yes it is, it’s about an hour and half past our closing time, how can I help you?”.
A angry voice starts in - “There is a blog post on the survival acres blog that is irresponsible, dated May 8th. You need to take this down and issue a public apology immediately”.
The voice rose in volume and stridence - “What you’ve done is irresponsible, you have made us all look bad in the alternative media, YOU SHOULD HAVE KNOWN BETTER THEN TO DO THIS WITH THE CURRENT STATE OF FEAR IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW!! YOU NEED TO TAKE THIS DOWN AND ISSUE AN APOLOGY TO THE BLOGSPHERE!!”
(deep breath)
“Are you the person who posted this? ARE YOU THE PERSON WHO POSTED THIS? I WILL NEVER RECOMMEND YOUR PRODUCTS AGAIN. I WILL NEVER LINK TO YOU AGAIN. I WILL NEVER DO BUSINESS WITH YOU AGAIN.”
I had no idea who this was. “Why are you yelling at me?” I asked.
“ARE YOU THE PERSON WHO POSTED THIS. ARE YOU? ARE YOU?”
“Why are you yelling at me?” I replied.
“LISTEN HERE - I HOPE YOUR HAPPY WITH WHAT YOU’VE DONE BECAUSE I’M NEVER GOING TO LINK TO YOUR SITE AGAIN YOU HAVE MADE US ALL LOOK BAD I AM NEVER GOING TO RECOMMEND YOUR PRODUCTS AGAIN AND I AM NEVER GOING TO BUY FROM YOU AGAIN, YOU HAVE ….
I hung up right about there. I set the phone down and stared at it. Who the hell was that?
Not twenty seconds later, the phone rings again. I didn’t answer it. It goes through its little warm up speech I’ve got on there and a voice comes on the line.
“Alright, it’s me again, it’s Matt from Life After the Oil Crash dot net. I’m not going to yell at you, I’m just going to say I think what you did was deeply irresponsible, and I make you look bad, it makes all us look bad, ah uh and that’s all I’m going to say, and you know, if your happy with what you done, so ah, I’m never going to listen to you ever again I’ll not buy from you ever again and I’m not going to recommend anybody buy from you ever again, so best of luck and I hope you’re happy with yourself.”
I get this email almost immediately aftwards:
SA,
I apologize for having yelled at you as that was simply not necessary. However, I do feel my anger was justified. I will reiterate what I said on the phone here via the the written word: your May 8th post is deeply irresponsible and makes all of us collapse/alt-new bloggers look untrustworthy. People - myself included - go to your site for actionable information, not fiction unless it is clearly delineated as fiction from the very beginning. In this post you did not do this until the very end. That is simply not acceptable. (I assume you are familiar with the Orson Wells radio catastrophe)
While we have not had an official affiliate or business relationship, I have never hesitated to recommend people purchase from you in the past. While I will not be advising people to avoid your site or business, I will neither be linking to or recommending your goods or services in the future as I feel there is no excuse for somebody of your status in the blogosphere to publish a post like this one sans a clear disclaimer at the very beginning of the post.
I do hope you post an apology and/or post the “future blog post” disclaimer line at the very top of the post as opposed to the bottom. I can’t help but suspect I’m far from the only reader of yours pushed to anger by your post. Most will not bother to contact you to express as much, they will just stop reading your blog and/or buying from your store.
Sincerely,
Matt Savinar
Somebody didn’t take his meds yesterday. Well Matt, you want my response, now you’ll get it.
First off, you have absolutely no business dictating what others write, not me, not anybody. None whatsoever. Secondly, you were indeed the only idiot that called me, screaming into my ear. Thirdly, you can piss off, I washed my hands of you long ago.
You understood the post for exactly what it was, but your high horse doesn’t wade any water here, ever.
The difference between you and me Matt, is I do not cater to the crowd like you and never will. I don’t speak pablum, I don’t appear in public and I don’t like grand audiences. None of these things are meaningful to me and never will be.
Attempting to dictate to me what I write on my own site is simply none of your business. Yelling at me only makes it worse, it proves what I have long known about you. There is a reason I do not post on your site and there is reason you and your board administrator were banned from my site long ago.
I lost all respect for you when you attempted to leverage my business for your own gain and profit, without even asking me for my approval in advance. I investigated you and your repeated “offers” and you were going to be the only person making any money. I told you and your board administrator Taraz that too - and there was nothing but silence from the both of you.
I even pointed out that I had lost money on your orders, and yet you and Taraz still thought you were deserving of additional discounts - and there was still silence from you.
And now you “demand” that I obey your dictates? Why would ANYONE in their right mind listen to anything you have to say? You’ve demonstrated that you are an unethical man and only interested in making tons of money. I’m not like you. I will never be like you.
I don’t read anything you write. I have never read your books. I have never listened to your interviews. I have never followed your blog, and this is because you do not speak the truth. You speak pablum like most writers today in the “collapse” genre and I know it. You are tickling ears all across the world and being paid quite handsomely for it too. You told me the sum of this once, I still have that email, it was downright startling, I can only imagine how much more it might be today.
When I came to you with the problem initiated by your board administrator, you quietly covered it up. There was no public apology on your board, now was there? And yet you believe you can force me to apologize on my own board because you demand it? Does your streak of hypocrisy run in the entire family?
How many other people have you tried to bully with your name and reputation? It won’t fly here — EVER.
What gall you have. What an incredible lack of integrity and character you have shown. What fear is this? Why are you so afraid?
I know what it is Matt and I will speak its name. You and all your kind are about to be “found out”. You are deathly afraid that the empires you have built in this genre are really and truly about to come crashing down along with the rest of the world.
The words that I wrote scared the living hell out of you, and they unveiled you for who you really are. I know who you are, quite a few of us do too.
You recognized in them the truth of what we are all facing, and you’re running scared. You are afraid to speak the whole truth. You deal in words much like I do, except I don’t get a paycheck from my words, I’m a volunteer. My words are freely given and meant to be freely received. I do no speeches, no interviews, no radio shows, no television appearances and I charge nothing. I have been asked to do them all and have years ago, but I now politely decline because I have no interest at all in building a following or achieving any fame. I am simply here, making my own small difference in the world and nothing else. I work 7 days a week, at least 12 hours a day, helping those who actually take the initiative to help themselves. When I get time, I write.
But you’re unhappy with that. You call me irresponsible and demand editorial control on my site. Unbelievable. I call you the irresponsible one, for you lack the willingness to speak the entire, unvarnished truth and furthermore for believing you can dictate to others what can and should be said.
If you don’t get your way — then you issue threats. Unbelievable. What incredible arrogance you have. Threaten to “never recommend my products to anyone ever again” as if that actually meant something, as if that actually carried any weight at all. How dare you be so goddamned presumptuous you pompous prick.
You would rather let it out in bits and pieces as it suits you (and pays you) so that you can maintain your position and following. You cater to those who prefer the soft-sell and you know it. I never have and I never will.
And “you will never buy from me ever again”. Need I AGAIN remind you that you and Taraz’s tiny orders were net losses to me? And that I kept this quiet and held my peace until your board administrator made a fool of herself online? You never publically responded — you never will because you lack character and integrity and many people besides myself know this. In my mind, you are a total fraud, a waste of breath and space and I suspect you know it.
I don’t hate you, I don’t envy you, I can really in all honesty, only pity you for what must be a frightening time in your life. You owe me a public apology (twice over), but I doubt if I will ever get it because you’re really not the man you claim to be. And I know it, most of those on my blog know it too since it has come up before.
I am not for sale Matt, not like you, not ever like you. You believe money is the motivation behind everyone, I’ve got your emails, I seen your threats, I know what you charge. I would much rather close the doors to this business and go do something else then to allow you or anyone else to dictate to me what I can and cannot say on my own site, or browbeat me into submission with threats of money. That just reveals you for who you really are, a money-grubbing asswipe. Assuming that your tiny orders would make a whit of difference is absolutely absurd beyond belief. I am presently actively turning away about 100k in orders per week, on purpose and with great deliberation, because I am not for sale like you.
My time now is extremely valuable and in very short supply. There is no point at all in trying to make tons of money or cater to everybody. I can’t do it, I don’t want to do it and to assume that your “input” into my business is actually meaningful just shows how out of touch you are with the day to day reality and what is happening in this industry and in our world today.
What you hope for and what you’re going to get are going to be two entirely different things. You need to wake the hell up. You claim to be “one of us”, but you’re not and never have been. Your orders revealed exactly who you are and what you are and what you actually believe. Your words reveal more, especially those words you spoke and wrote to me last night. It matters not what a man says, it matters what he does, his actions reveal him, as your actions have. And you haven’t done anything except to try to attempt to control me and threaten me. This is why you are a fraud — and why you are afraid.
You’re going to be mighty angry at these words. So be it, I do not care. I am not afraid of you or what you proposed to do. I don’t need you and never have. You’re just an empty voice as far as I am concerned, trying to stave off his own destruction as long as possible. It won’t work. You need to shut up and get busy with saving yourself, but I have seen scant evidence of this. I cannot help you and will not help anyone who takes this position, because I know this is a waste of time and effort now.
You’re still trying to play by the old rules, which are already meaningless now. Speaking the same old meaningless words too, which are empty now. Only you know why, but I cannot do that. The old rules do not apply anymore, empty words do not convey enough anymore and you of all people should know it after all the words you have spoken and written.
I can’t help you and cannot retract my words. I will not issue the apology to the blogsphere that you demanded either. The blog entry stands — exactly for what it says, for what it means and for what is in all probability, going to happen. If you can’t see it, then you are willfully blind, and seeking to keep others blind too, passing yourself off as an authority while knowing nothing about what is actually going on.
The blog entry was written exactly for what it appears to be — to cause awareness, alarm, fright and reflection. Could it be true someday? Indeed, it could very well prove to be true. Writing it now is better then having to write it later — why you can’t understand that is truly bizarre.
If it frightens some people, so what? Time to grow the hell up, quit playing around and pretending our survival is some kind of game. This isn’t a game, no more then you pretending you’re making a difference and have the right to dictate to anyone what they can and cannot say. A fictional blog entry is not the same thing as yelling into a crowded theater that there is a fire — and you should be mature and intelligent enough to know the bloody difference.
Go chase your dollars somewhere else, I won’t ever sell to you. Take your reputation and shove it up your tightwad ass too. I want nothing from you.